Strive for Excellence not Perfection

The New Breed of Family Leaders In business, we often talk about the three eternal markets: Wealth Health Relationships Almost any action we take, dollar we spend, or hour we use is spent in one of these three markets. We talk a lot about the Fatherhood crisis – that requires us to step up. So it is time for the new breed of family leaders. Let’s introduce the Present Provider! The Present Provider is a: Business leader Family leader Spiritual leader As the business leader We are providing…

We are often in a rush.I’m definitely feeling it on many days. I think my progress is to slow.My plan is always tight for time.I plan too much for too little time.Then I need to look up, let in a sense of time. In forestry, there is a saying:“Wood grows on wood.”Older trees grow more wood per year than smaller trees — if both grow slow.The bigger, older tree will have added a multiple amount of wood compared to the smaller, younger tree because its diameter is so much bigger.Yet the small…

Hey Reader, It feels like there is a threat in the air. Now that ChatGPT is out for a few years already—and it’s constantly improving—it feels like we are in a competition we can’t win. I’ve been doing content marketing for almost 5 years.It definitely changed over the last year. There is a flood of content out there that is just generated by AI.It is getting easier to stay consistent. There is also a pattern I observe: I’m not trying to compete with AI.Since it’s a tool, I can use it well or…

Hey Reader, Wait what? You’re telling me that the things I can’t do are actually my strengths? Yes, I am. We live in a world with modern opportunities.We have so many options to choose from. It used to be that we would learn the job of our dads—which he learned from his dad. That’s why some last names include a job title.It is what your family was known for. Today we have freedom: Freedom to live where we want To find a job that we want To marry who we want To spend money the way we want In…

Hey Reader, I like to push myself to test my limits.Sometimes in the past, I’ve pushed myself too far. At 22, I almost had a burnout.I have stomach issues ever since. So: burnout is not really excellence. Striving for Excellence is like driving on a three-lane highway. You shouldn’t drive too fast and lose controland cross over into oncoming traffic. But you also shouldn’t drive too slowlyand steer off into the right side by pursuing perfection. Striving for Excellence has two limits: Don’t…

Hey Reader, We all have daily tasks—sorry, chores—that we just have to do.They are a must.We can’t get out of doing them. That might be taking out the trash in your household.Those tasks also exist in our businesses. Things that we just have to do. You probably have tasks that you love to do.I actually love to write these newsletters.If I could, I would send you a lot more—just because it’s fun. In this newsletter, I will try to help us shift our mindset:That the have-to-dos will become…